Saturday, July 5, 2008

Week 40 - Gametime!

Dear Luca,
Since this whole thing began back in October 2007, July 2nd was the date that you were supposed to arrive. However, with Mom's family history of delivering late (she was 3 weeks late herself!) and the fact that first babies typically are a little on the tardy side, we were prepared to wait a few more days or even weeks when we went to bed on Tuesday night, July 1st.
Mom was having some dull pain in her back and her frequent contractions seemed to be even more frequent than usual. We chalked these things up to being effects from having taken a long walk to Liberty Frozen Custard for ice cream after dinner, and went to bed as usual. Little did we know that your arrival was around the corner.

3am
- Contractions woke Mom for the first time in the entire pregnancy. Each contraction was also painful, which was a first as well. She noted the times of the contractions, and saw that they were coming fast and furious (5-minutes apart right from the start).

4am
-
A: "Wake up T, I think things are happening"
T: "Oh my god"

4am - 545am - We timed contractions, took showers, put the finishing touches on our hospital bags, called the doctor (who told us to head to the hospital), and of course, took A's in-labor uber-important week 40 photo.
Yes, she's in labor in this 545am photo!

7am - The nurses at maternity assessment noted that A's contractions were strong and close together, but that she was only dilated to 2-3 cms. They asked that we go for a walk before being reassessed. With further dilation, Mom would be admitted and we would begin becoming your parents. No further dilation would mean we would head back home and continue with the waiting game.
8am - After an hour-long walk to and around the midtown market, we returned to the hospital to learn that A's dilation had moved to 4-5 cms. It was gametime! Mom was admitted to room 10 of the delivery room (which we later learned was the same room where your cousin Ben was born just 9 months before!), and her contractions ramped up in intensity and length.
11am - A was dilated to 6 cm by this point, but her contractions had reached a point where they were almost unbearable. Mrs. Tough Stuff had been handling her discomfort so well that nurse Linda said she couldn't believe A was at 6 with no pain medication b/c she was acting like someone at 2.
12pm - A's pain escalated rapidly and after discussing some relief options, she decided to give the tub a shot. The warm water of the tub proved a good distraction as A began to feel a little better about her discomfort.
1215pm - A's water broke in the tub!
1245pm - Mom began feeling the need to push and nurse Linda thought it was time to head back to room #10 to begin the delivery process.
1pm - We returned to the delivery room and the nurse was impressed to see that A was between 9-10 cms without having received any drugs at all. She asked A if she was ready to push even though the doctor was still not in the room, and A said she was ready.
1-135pm - Mom's spirits improved as she was able to take some control over the process by pushing through each contraction. Doctor Kilburg arrived around 130pm, and after a funny introduction to A during a big push she immediately prepared for a delivery that she deemed imminent. Here was their exchange:

MD: "Hi, A. You're doing great. I'm doctor Kilburg. It's nice to meet you."
A: "MMMRMRRRRRMRGRRR!"

136pm - You were born! Luca Thomas! To quote the doctor, you were a big, juicy, baby boy! We high-fived upon hearing the news (partly because we didn't even have a girls name figured out), and you immediately screamed and cried. After Dad cut the surprisingly thick cord, you bonded with Mom for a few minutes and then were measured by the nurses: 8lbs 12.8 oz., 21 inches long, 14-inch head:

We stuck around the hospital until Friday, and were immediately overwhelmed with happiness and the sense that you belonged with us all along -a euphoric feeling that is impossible to explain.

We love you, and welcome home.

Love,
Mom and Dad



1:30 of more pics...

Monday, June 30, 2008

Week 39

With just two days until #3's due date, we shouldn't be surprised that today brought a lot of contractions and quite a few opportunities for us to wonder if the real thing was underway.

Our friends have been great at helping to distract us from the inevitable feeling of suspense that week 39 has brought. Last week we barbecued and witnessed a super-soaker showdown, and got to spend some time with the newest addition, little CS born just a couple of weeks ago.

Monday, June 23, 2008

Week 38

As you can see, I'm still pregnant. You might also be able to tell that I've passed the stage where people regard me with doting admiration. Now when I walk into a store, I'm greeted by strangers who say "whoa!" and start making contingency plans in case I go into labor.

There's got to be a jail stripes joke here somewhere...

We manage to keep stacking up great weekends and are keeping track of all the cool things #3 is getting to do pre-birth. The highlights this week were Rock the Garden at the Walker on Saturday and a family dinner on Sunday. Now just one weekend between us and the due date...


A friend found this picture of us in a local paper. We're near the center, watching from the roofdeck of the Walker.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Week 37 - Happy Father's Day

37 is a magic number in Pregnancytown, since at 37 weeks the little smidge is considered full term. So we've got a fully brewed baby here.


We considered the possibility that this could have been T's first official Father's Day, if the baby came early. As it is, we enjoyed it as an Almost-Father's-Day. To start the weekend off, T & friends played the Mill City Farmers Market. #3 has a very talented father: superstar summer intern Monday through Friday, rockstar on the weekend.

Natty's Hi Tone Barbers

Sunday, June 8, 2008

Week 36

Special Delivery: 150 lb. crate containing not the face-melting ark, but a hand-crafted cradle made especially for #3 by Grandpa David. Dawn completed the ensemble with lovely, crocheted blankets and a penguin. And just to prove that #3 is the luckiest yet-to-be-born baby in the world, Grandma Micki sent us an adorable crib quilt (also shown below).



Sunday, June 1, 2008

Week 35

This weekend we headed to the North Shore for our last excursion as A & T. We enjoyed our "babymoon," as we've heard it called. We hiked, ate out, played cards, got some fresh air, and savored the quiet before #3's arrival. Northern Minnesota is home to some incredible state parks and we got to visit a couple - and have plans to go back someday to do more exploring on a future family vacation.

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Week 34

We just graduated from Birth & Parenting class and are now completely prepared for the big event. Or not so much. But we know more now than we did before. T is a quick study with the hee-hee-hoo breathing techniques and will be a great coach. Now if I can just accept that there is no alternative ending to this pregnancy thing, and that the baby will indeed have to come out eventually...

Monday, May 26, 2008

A New Family Member

Today we traded in the SuperJet for a car with a friendlier disposition. Meet the Subaru.

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Week 33

This week's special event was a baby shower hosted by the pro team of Pam, Patty & Erica. We had some very special guests fly in just for the occasion - Edye, Wendi, Casey & Moana. Having them here was the BEST. We miss them.


In baby news, I experienced my first series of Braxton Hick contractions. Oh, and I'm getting huge.

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Week 32 - Mother's Day

This week we chose a new backdrop: the crabapple tree we planted on Mother's Day two years ago in honor of KC. Though not yet in full bloom, the branches are covered in fuschia buds that look ready to open next week.

This mother's day we're missing T's mom especially much, while also looking forward to me becoming a mom and to my own mom's arrival tomorrow. We visited the memorial garden this afternoon, which is looking beautiful. We also got the sweetest email from Nic, who has a great knack for looking on the bright side.

We're thankful for all the mothers - past, present & future - in our lives, and wish everyone a happy mother's day!

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Week 31

Well, I decided to come back from San Jose after all. It was a tough decision...as you can see, there were some compelling reasons to stay.


Back in Minnesota, the weather rollercoaster is starting to dip less and less into the wintery temps. Today was a beautiful day for baring the stomach out back before heading to a Twins' game/sports shower generously hosted by one of my bosses. Not only did the home team pull out a win, but we are also much better outfitted for #3's arrival thanks to the gifts of toys, clothes, and crib mattresses from friends & family. Thanks everybody!

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Week 30

Shortly after taking this picture, A and #3 left for the airport on their way to San Jose, California. Family and 80 degree weather await their arrival, and as you might notice in the picture below Minneapolis has once again turned cold. That's not instant potato in our yard...

I checked the casinos in Vegas and the current odds are 4:1 that A and #3 will get on their return flight on Monday morning. I'm not sure I'd take the bet. Last night at dinner, A proposed the following two girl names for #3: Cali and Fornia. I think she might have been serious.

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Week 29

The grass isn't the only thing growing around here. Looking at this week's picture, it's evident that a Spring growth spurt is underway.

Last night we got parenting advice from an unexpected source when we went to see Chuck D speak at the Fitzgerald. He admonished parents to accept that they're old and "corny." Once they do that, they can move on to the real job which is drilling the right messages into their kids' heads. Our feeling is that if Chuck D is corny, we're ok with falling into that category, too.


(In addition to Chuck D's wit & wisdom, we were treated to performances by Slug and Brother Ali.)